Troubled Love... A mystery after All...

The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing - and then marry him.

Cher

Love is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to have sex.

Daniel S. Greenberg

If pleasures are greatest in anticipation, just remember that this is also true of trouble.
Elbert Hubbard

They say that love is the best feeling ever felt by human. That when both of you are together, you will be able to work things out. That you can do everything in the name of love and this love will last for ever. But how true are these words? How will love last forever in this world full of mystery? The answer is unknown...

Love is a matter of choice or by destiny? But, if you love someone let it be. God knows how this love will work out. If you don't love some, let it go... You have to set its wings free.. If it will comes back to you, then it's yours. But if it will go away, God has prepared someone meant for you... Sometime love is not what we thought it was. Time will come that love will be in trouble. It is whether to test if love was really meant for us or not.

When you love, you must remember that it is also accompanied by sacrifices and hard work. Not all the time love is likely to be in good condition. The troubled love quotes above show that there maybe times

where love would be in trouble. Yet, things will only depend on how the two of you handle that trouble and how you will be able to over come it. Being in a relationship is not merely doing everything you want. Not only being together, hugging and saying those sweet words of love. Love is also fighting and struggling for all the obstacles that may come your way. This is to test on how strong the foundation you have set for your relations. It tests on how far you will be able to suffer and fight for love.

If you're like someone else who's been through into a broken relationship or divorce, you know that the pain brought by this circumstances can be excruciating! The trouble for many people after their breakup or divorce is that the pain can be so unbearable that without realizing it, they unknowingly do something that are counter-productive in healing their pain. They actually stay stuck in that pain, and sometimes forever. Sometimes, even when you think that you have dealt with the pain of the breakup or divorce and put your past relationship behind you, there's still more healing work to be done. You just didn't realize it. There are some things that remind you of a certain time and person that you were with. Other times, someone will say or do something that reminds you of a past relationship and you realize that even though days, weeks, months or even years may have passed, there's still more healing to be done. If time passing is the only thing that needs to happen in order for us to heal our pain and broken heart, then all we have to do is let a certain amount of time pass and poof- just like magic- our pain was be gone and our heart was healed.

Unfortunately, this isn't the way the healing process works. It isn't just the time that's important. It's what we do with that time that determines whether we heal our hearts or not. If we ever hope to heal our heart and find the courage to truly open yourself up to love again, you're going to do some things besides simply letting time pass.

Being in this situation is not that easy. After the moments and experience that you've shared and dreamed on, things ends up that easily... But life is a battle. You must stand up and fight again. Learned from your experience and love again.. Trouble love may happen to us but after all, you will understand it's mystery.

Is It Love or Crush?

"How do I love thee?
Let me count the ways."
Elizabeth Barrett Browning, from How Do I Love Thee?

"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness."
by Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within the reach of every hand."
Mother Teresa

"Love is the emotions that catches you unaware and causes you to laugh when you're discourages and cry when you want to be tough"

Isn't it really nice to fall in love and receive those simple yet touching crush and love quotes? Definitely yes!

But how can we distinguish crush from love? What are the difference between the two, since both involve feelings of attraction to the opposite sex.

Crush is just a temporary feeling of admiration towards the opposite sex. It is based on what the object of your desire looks like, and your perception of what that person might be like. Maybe you like the way he or she looks or the physical appearance, the way he or she dressed up, walk, smile, dance, sing or even just his or her, two deep dimples. But these admiration does not go beyond deeper feeling. It lasted only for a while or for a short time. In crush you can't look straight into the eyes of the person you admire. You are shy and very conscious with how you look, talk or even walk. You want acceptance and you are afraid to be ignored. It is almost an obsession that you cannot control.

Love with a Silly Thoughts

"Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs. Being purged, a fire sparking in lovers eyes. Being vexed, a sea nourished with lovers tears. What is it else? A madness most discreet, a choking gall and a preserving sweet."
By: William Shakespeare

Love with a Silly Thoughts!

How could you explain this? Funny? Playful? Refined? Foolish? Harmless? Any of your choice is considered right! But all I know this is a silly quote!

When we speak of silly, it means foolish. It shows the lack of good sense and wisdom. Showing irresponsible behavior. It may be weak or harmless. It can also be playful or giggly, it can imply ridiculous or irrational behavior that demonstrates the lack of common sense, good judgment, or sobriety .

The quote above is one of the examples of a silly love quotes which is widely use as an expression of love. But how can we define the word love? The first thing that comes in our mind when we hear the word love is merely attraction. But it is a word with different meaning to different people in different places. But let me define it as a strong, ineffable feeling towards the opposite sex. It represents a range of human emotions and experiences related to the sense of affection and sexual attraction. It refers to a variety of feeling, state and attitude, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction.